Good looking women becoming worthless and unloved.
I have a question: why do most beautiful women seem to be more unloved than most of the seemingly uglier ones? Have you heard of a beautiful woman having no husband, a single mom and unloved? Whereas, her not so good-looking neighbor of her age was loved, and had a husband who's willing to die for her?
My answer is simple: most beautiful women don't understand the dynamics of man-woman (or husband-wife) relationship. What is that? They normally demand value for their beauty, just like selling something that's of good quality. "If you truly love me," demands Miss Beautiful, "you must provide me all my wants. After all, "a thing of beauty is a joy forever" (Keats). Well, that kind of an attitude is acceptable, for behind the success of most women lies beauty, good looks, pleasing personality! But as regards marital union, most beauties are happier as an employee than as a wife, so to speak. For most of them don't understand that men marry for the sake of life partnership, not for the sake of having someone to behold on to, like beholding a diamond ring one wore daily.
Most men prefer a long lasting relationship and partnership, which is more than the lifespan of beauty.
Yes, what would life partnership look like when Miss Beautiful requires her man to "worship" her good looks and loveliness? With all the natural gifts of most movie female superstars--their acting, singing, good looks, popularity--only a handful of them landed a good marriage, and only by sacrificing their career.
Have you heard of this expression: "I buried two husbands already!" This is coming from most widows (mostly old and losing any trace of good looks already!) who understand man's love better than most failed-in-marriage celebrities.
Man's love, I mean the love of a responsible and mature man, is always anchored on life partnership, not on beauty per se. For, marrying a woman for the sake of beauty is just like buying a house for the sake of the paint.
Successful wives never demand value of their beauty but rather on their character.
If your wife is so beautiful and so good a partner, then you're a lucky man, like the man who won a lotto jackpot!
My simple and unsolicited advice to beautiful women is this: submit yourselves to your own husbands and never pretend to be superior to men, for women were created as "help mate" of men. Go to your Bible if you think I am pretending authority on the issue of good-looking-women becoming worthless and unloved.
May I reiterate: Why is it that most beautiful women are either divorcees or simply abandoned or single parents, whereas the uglier ones have men beside them willing to die for them in the name of love? Well, it is because Miss Beautiful is demanding too much value on her beauty, and less value on her character.
